Life is an awkward thing. We all want to have a life just like a fairytale. With that one prince charming, the castle to live in, the beautiful gowns you wear as everyday clothing, and a happy ending.
Reality check. Life is not a fairytale. It's a test. It tests your strengths, and it tests your weaknesses. You have to search hard for your prince charming. Castle-like houses are hard to come by, without a butt load of money. Clothing consists of jeans and a t-shirt, and on rare occasions, a fancy dress. Happy endings are a lot of work; they are possible, but come with a price.
Life is an awkward thing. It is full of heartache, misery, and far too many goodbyes. People walk in and out of your life like it's nothing. Things happen, and people change. Challenges are thrown at you from all directions, all at once. You feel like you are alone 95% of the time.
But here's a secret: Your not.
The greatest thing about life is that it happens. It happens to everyone. This makes life so great because it gives you a reason to relate to people. To talk to people. To get close to people. Like I said before, people walk in and out of your life faster than you expect. And it hurts. It always does. But instead of living in the past and moping about "what could have been," you be grateful they were in your life. If even for a little while. Because, even it they did nothing but torment your entire being, at least they made an impact. Even if you see it as a negative impact. But truth is, there are no negative impacts. Because without people screwing everything up, then nobody else could learn from their mistakes. And let's be honest. We are all human. No one is going to do everything perfect. Not one single person. People fight, and people change. Sorry to say, but there isn't one single thing you can do about it. That's something I have just recently accepted. And I have found that the best thing you can do, is go with it. Live it up while you can. Don't sweat the small stuff, and don't worry about pleasing everyone. Because you never will. And that is perfectly fine. If someone can't stand you, then they can simply sit down. Because you're you. And you shouldn't change that for anyone. So please, for the sake of every living thing on this earth, own who you are. Because I can guarantee that there is someone out there who loves you for who you are, and not for what your trying to be. Every day, ask yourself, "If I were to die today, would I be content with my life and the way I lived it?" And if your not, then change something. Because it can all be ripped right out from under you in a heartbeat. Look to the future, and hope for the best. Work hard, and if you don't succeed in getting what you dream of, then try again. Love everyone and don't live in the past. You can't change it, so the best thing you can do is strive to be a better your and work for a better tomorrow. Don't live with any regrets and embarrass yourself. Being humble is a good thing. Get involved in everything possible, and get close to as many people as you can. Don't be afraid of heartache. It will happen, so learn from it and move on. Simple. Life is a beautiful thing. Life is a crazy thing. But you just gotta Go With It.
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